Sometimes when I'm visible I'm completely in flow and energetically I haven't got a clue what is going to come out of my mouth, all I know is that I'm enjoying myself, also an intention and hope my brain sticks to that intention, and those times are always the times when I get the most interaction the most bookings the most new customers are mostly followers et cetera et cetera.
Sometimes and not as often as I used to do, but sometimes I get in my head, and I realise that the times when I get in my head, and I let the little demon that tells me that no one cares, but that person that I don't like is watching me, I lose all sense of the joy and my natural authenticity is gone. And it is then I realise this is actually how a lot of people live 90% of their life. And I want to teach you how to stop that for the most part.
So what with being a woman in 2026 nobody, has got away with zero people pleasing in their life, even the confident ones, can recount you a time where they showed up and other people feel uncomfortable due to their fullness.
We can't overcome this just in your head, the reason that the story exists in the first place, it's because you have very real evidence of you shining, and people around you feeling very uncomfortable about that. This is why you need a space where everyone is comfortable with you bringing your best, biggest, shiniest, craziest, all of you, self.
Using human design to find your energetic blueprint, of what comes naturally to your energetics.
Acknowledge where you are, where youre startig from and what succesful and aligned vsibilit mean sto you. Notice any stories around visibilty that yu currently hold and giving life total accepatce.
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blocks & shocks
What level of visibility do you actually want? 33% desire, 33% regular reps, we have to prove all your fears wrong, 33% clarity of vision
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IF new visible you has a chance of making it big, old you is gonna have to go...
ego & ego death
Visibility is the unknown, map a path for your subconsious and it will feel safe to receive the new
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I hope this doesn't happen to you, but one day after years of ignoring the last few steps of the enneagram, I went through serious burnout. My body would literally just not move. I had two years worth of heart issues-linked to business stress-and genuinely lost every bit of Confidence in myself.
You often think 'fuck this, why am I working this hard for this much stress'. Truly you need different energy to carry you to the next level of your adventure. Trying harder will NOT solve.
You get bored, you are chasing that feeling of the first invoice you ever sent, or the first little bit of money you made. You want that new business feeling because it's energising. The trusth is you get it when you get to pint 9! NOT BEFORE!
So when I started my social media journey, online business life was on facebook, I am a proud millenial, and let me tell yu, it was FUN building that page, nothing had to look a certain way, I was just enjoying myself. I actually had my instagram since 2012 when it had the old fahsioned camera logo and my fav filter was Moon or Nashville. Anyway, I was posting FOR FUN, I wanted to get to 10k facebook followers and i was v open about that, I just keot harping on and eventully that came. But as these things go when we build something unless we stablise it, we can feel like it's too good to be true. When we are expanding we never want to feel in 'pinch me' for too long. The universe/nature/ God wants to create thorugh you and the best way to do that is to move your wow, to normal as soon as you can. Make sure your body feels safe with the things that is has. Anyway I did not do that, I wet from being outspoek and contraversioal around breastfeedling to quiet and subdued and afraid I would lose my followers and business, now I really had something I loved to lose ya know? Anyway I can look back now and see themisatkes but when youre in it, thats not how it works. In 2023, after growing my instagram to 28k followers, my personal insta was shut down, which was connected to my facebook, and I ultimately lost it all. I mean I didn't but it feels more dramatic. I OVERNIGHT lost my income, shoots went from fully booked, to a fucking struggle, I shut my sttudio, and it was just a living nightmare. I am very lucky that I rebuilt my follwings quickish, but it was only when I was studying the Enneagram that I realised I had a point 1 block (starting - intention setting) which is not noramlly where I get blocked, thats when I ralised i needed to do more work on Visibility. And then I though, everyone needs to do more work on visibility, so thats why we are here, to be cringe together, to get trolled together, to get excited together, because shame is a social contruct and it always needs a social balm.
I went from LOVING contraversy, to being terrified of losing everything, which of course i then did
Ok , so I have my own visibility dramas
includes a guest session with:
Holly - The Body Positive Mum
Sharing how she expanded her visibility, built her audience, and held being seen at scale.
Normalise the simplicity of your own genius
from 'thick' to genius marketing projector
DUALISTIC. We are not here to be WET and liked by everyone, Miranda does not care if Andrea likes her, and who holds the cards?
Let's get something straight right now. TROLLS EXIST. But let's set the record straight IMMEDIATELY also, TROLLS ARE wonderful. They are the biggest indicator that you are doing something right. They are a reminder that you are powerful, provocative, and as all cult brands and power houses should be.
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